Back in 2014, Golder came across a story online about an initiative underway in Memphis to recruit more Jews to move to the southern city of about 650,000. Golder and her husband, then a law student, were looking for a Jewish community where they could settle down.
She called the organization described in the story, booked tickets at the group’s expense and spent a long weekend exploring Memphis and its thriving Jewish community. The couple moved to several months later.
Five years later, Golder and her husband are raising two children in the Tennessee city’s leafy east end, home to multiple synagogues, including the Baron Hirsch Congregation, one of the largest Orthodox synagogues in the world.
“Memphis is like a well-kept secret,” she said. “People ask me, are there Jews? Yes, plenty of them.”
Among the many Memphis traditions that Golder and her husband have embraced: participating in the local Chabad’s trivia nights. An avid JTA reader since encountering a feed of stories on the website of her employer, Memphis’ Jewish federation, Golder said she was excited to find an online quiz show — “You Call That News?!?” — while in-person activities are suspended because of the pandemic.
She got all 13 questions right, answering queries about how Toronto’s Jews have responded to the pandemic, which “Friends” star surprised a bar mitzvah boy and more. She plans to return for future rounds — and you can try to beat her by logging in every Thursday evening at 7:30 p.m. Eastern time. Here’s how to play.
Here are three fun facts about Golder, beyond the way she chose where to live:
- Elvis Presley was her grandfather’s “shabbos goy,” the non-Jew employed to handle prohibited activities on Shabbat on behalf of observant Jews. Golder’s grandfather, Rabbi Alfred Fruchter, lived upstairs from a teenage Presley in Memphis in the 1950s; the family has shared its Elvis history extensively. (Golder’s mother was born after the family left Memphis and she grew up in Baltimore.)
- Golder’s “babymoon” before she had her first child was to Chicago, where for the first time she met the man to whom she had donated bone marrow stem cells two years earlier, curing his cancer. You can read her account of that experience here.
- Shavuot, the holiday that begins tonight, is one of Golder’s favorites. That’s because she’s a vegetarian and finds hosting Shabbat and holiday meals awkward because guests typically expect meat. That concern evaporates on Shavuot, which is celebrated with dairy meals. This year, with hosting impossible, Golder ordered tiramisu from a local kosher caterer, and she’s also baking cream cheese-based chocolate sea salt rugelach.
(Speaking of Shavuot, this week’s quiz show will end right when My Jewish Learning’s Shavuot learning program begins. You should come! Register here.)